Why cant men jus be friends with women and always want more?
I know this will sound weird but iv known this guy for almost 3 years and we’ve been nothing but friends. He’s always fancied me but the feelings were not mutual. He moved into a 2 bedroom flat january this year and ask me if i wanted to move in and he’l pay all the rent as he knew i wanted to save and pay of my student loan. I refused this great offer as i didnt want to give him false hopes that we will be an item some day. Last month he had met someone im really happy for him as he has been single 4yrs she lives in northern england and they see each other most weekends… now he doesnt stay in contact…he’s in his 40s and i feel like iv just been used as we were close mates i thought and he seemed like the kindest guy iv ever met…i felt sorry for him as he was lonely and always invited him out with my mates or round to mine to mantain friendship even though i had a boyfriend…shall i just move on?
He only wanted you to move in with him so he could further his relationship with you. Men never “just” want to be friends – sex is always the motive. Move on with your life & be happy for him.
