what do you do when your dad tells you he will co-sign on a student loan if you divorce your husband?
my husband has cheated on me 2 times that i know of. he has recently moved out, and told me he dont want a divorce yet. however he also said he cant stand me cause i cant keep th house clean, which i try hard to do. i have 3 kids with him. he cant stand that i am always sick and have alot of meds. i have several medical issues and i cant help being sick when i do get sick. i have neurofibromatosis tumors, and fibromiagia, rls, tmj, larynixe refluxe, cronic siunitus hyperplastic, mils asthama, low platlets. he knew ow the tumors when we married and that did not bother him. i was just diagnosed in aug/sept. with the rest of the issues. should i just go for the divorce or just stay seperated?
When I read the first part of the question my first response was to tell your dad it’s your business. But the rest of the information tells me your dad is looking out for your best interests. Your husband has cheated on you (at least twice), says he can’t stand you and complains because you’re sick! Listen to him and do yourself and your children a favor. Your kids don’t need to think that men are supposed to treat women the way your husband treats you. Good luck!
